The Power Of Being You, The Real You
As a woman in business I see a lot of pitches for my attention and for my hard earned cash. Which got me thinking about what posts call to me and which ones don’t and why that’s the case.
I don’t know if you experience this but for me there is something that just alerts my senses to the fact if the post is genuine or not, and if the person posting is posting from a place of authenticity or obligation….let’s dive in.
If this resonates on any level i’d love to welcome you into my community Becoming Aligned.
I see a lot of follow my Hocus Pocous way of life to get the results that I did and it’s usually followed by something like so you can earn 10k months……..firstly why does everyone speak to 10k months….what’s wrong with 9,8,7,6,5 you get my point ha!
Anyway it got me thinking of why there is so much power in being your authentic self, and how that connection to your sense of self, will help you use your discernment on things that may not appear as they seem on the surface.
Quite simply we are all very unique and individual and actually when we start buying into these concepts and try and implement them we quickly lose our sense of self and confidence.
Things to ask yourself before you go balls deep……
Is this my hearts desire or a conditioned desire. A simple but highly effective question
Following on from the first question. Why do I want this outcome, what is driving this decision
What am I not being shown? If it’s an example like follow my structure to earn 10k months. They may show you the raw figures, but what they often miss out is the bottom line. Huge difference between net and gross profit. What you really want to know is, what’s your actual take home minus costs/expenses…..it could £29
How does this message feel for you, where does it land in your body. Tune into that because your body knows if something is truth or not, but most importantly if that something is really meant for you.
Knowing your Human Design will allow you to deeply connect to your bodies wisdom to answer these questions. But remember Human Design is just the tool, you are the key and that’s why it’s important to get clear on what’s driving your desires.
Once you’re clear on the answers and you’re leading with your hearts desires, you will align your life and business so it flows with ease and authenticity. It will be a natural expression for you.
People feel your authenticity. It’s an energetic frequency that has an unmistakable imprint on us. Don’t waste your time trying to be someone else.
How to embrace your authenticity using Human Design in 3 easy steps
Allow yourself to just be. Take the passenger seat for a while and see how certain requests, invitations make you feel. If you feel a sense of restriction or contraction within your body, it’s likely not aligned.
Sit and think about the key areas of your life. For example work, family, relationships, friendships and your relationship with your self. Where do you feel able to really be yourself and where do you experience the most joy and happiness? Now let’s think about where you feel the opposite to this. We want to expand the feeling of self expression and happiness to other aspects of our life, so how can we do this? What must be released to receive this?
Speak and express first, think later. Your first response to most things within reason of course, is usually your truest expression, before your logical mind wades in. Try leading with this essence even if it feels uncomfortable to start with. Journal your reflections on what comes up. What do you feel naturally inclined to talk about and share? How does this make you feel when you take the plunge and allow your authentic expression to take form?
I would love to know what’s come up for you and if you were able to identify your blocks with time and space? If this resonates on any level i’d love to welcome you into my community Becoming Aligned.
